Showing posts with label pornography. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pornography. Show all posts

Friday, November 18, 2011

The Friday Sex Blog [Feminism, Pornographies, Censorship]

¡Hola mi Gente!
Note: the following is an abbreviated version of a full article. There’s just too much to plumb on this subject matter and I was having a hard time keeping to my self-imposed limit of my blogs being no longer than a one-page (single-spaced) Word document. As it is this comes in at two MS Word pages

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Feminism and Pornography


Since the 1980s feminism has grown conflicted about the importance of pornography as an issue, about strategies and tactics to deal with the issue and even about the meaning of pornographies -- or pornographies, for there are many different forms.

My belief is that this conflict is important. I am also concerned that ill-informed political alliances have been formed based on simplistic and gut reactions to what are complex issues. While I believe that anti-pornography feminists have made important contributions to the cause, they have also had the unintended consequence of allying themselves on the side of censorship and a neo-Puritanism that is, in my estimation, in opposition to core feminist principles as I have understood and embraced them.

In the late 1970s various grassroots feminist groups resisting violence against women emerged, and began building on the growth of earlier antirape work. These groups included Women Against Pornography (WAP), Women Against Violence Against Women, Feminists Fighting Against Pornography, and the Women’s Alliance Against Pornography. They led large, “Take Back the Night” marches, which were (and I still think still are) held annually across the country to protest rape and promote women’s safety. They also provided an opportunity for consciousness-raising, arousing condemnation, and enlisting feminists who were willing to leaflet, picket, show slide shows, and commit acts of civil disobedience.

Beginning in the 1980s, however, the focus of the marches shifted from being against sexual violence (rape, sexual abuse of children, and incest) to first including protests against pornography and prostitution, and then to being almost exclusively against pornography. Spurred in large part by the rhetoric of author Andrea Dworkin, a longtime feminist activist, the antiviolence campaign made an unfortunate turn into an antipornography campaign. Dworkin asserted in her first book, Woman Hating, that was needed was a global “movement [committed] to ending male dominance as the fundamental, psychological, political, and cultural reality of earth-lived life.” The book contained a section on pornography that suggested, as in advertising and fairy tales, pornography teaches women to be submissive and defined by others. As an aside, it’s illustrative that Dworkin didn’t find anything wrong with the European porn mag, Suck. She pointed out that “the emphasis on sucking cunt serves to demystify cunt in a spectacular way -- cunt is not dirty, not terrifying, not smelly and foul. It is a source of pleasure, a beautiful part of the female physiology to be seen, touched tasted.”

In her later writings even this distinction was abandoned. Dworkin eventually saw porn in stark terms: “Male power is the raison d’être of porn; the degradation of the female is the means of achieving this power.” By the early 1980s she was saying that “One cannot be a feminist and support pornography… [Any defense of it is] anti-feminist contempt for women.”

In combination with another other leading figure in this phase, Catherine MacKinnon, the feminist movement’s central issue was defined by sexuality. Not the sexuality discussed during the 1960s and 1970s, where the positive focus on getting equal pleasure in bed and equal rights in society was a central issue for feminism, but a new, critical focus locating women’s oppression in the reality and ideology of sexuality. Mackinnon turned the 1970s formulation, Rape is violence, not sex,” to “Rape is sex, not violence.”

It’s was only a logical consequence that both authors would get together and begin a different tact: that of legal activism and they began drafting anti-pornography legislation in novel ways. They combined already existing human rights ordinances with anti-pornography legislation. Essentially, Dworkin and Mackinnon started what would become a censorship campaign adopted (and repealed) by many cities across the nation. Their legal efforts were eventually defeated at the Supreme Court level, where it was struck down as unconstitutional without hearing any arguments.

In my estimation, there is an essential contradiction at the core of antipornography feminism, one that’s extremely hard to justify. In fact there are many contradictions, the first one being that anti-sex crusades have for centuries been at the heart of violence and oppression against women. In my estimation, the fear of women’s sexuality is the basis for much of the sexism in society.

Secondly, not all pornography is violent and degrading, and it is difficult to even agree on what measures up to those terms. Most pornography, as any review will show, consists of sexual activities between consenting adults, emphasizing intercourse, oral sex, and lots of genital close-ups. Sadomasochistic (S&M) materials, which appear violent to those shocked or disgusted by the images, are actually a form of elaborate ritual to the participants rather than being literally violent or the cause of actual harm. In addition, S&M materials are not as common as some puritanical feminists would have us believe.

If the target of the feminist campaign is violence against women, the question that most comes to my mind is whether pornography is really the best place to start to make headway against such violence. Mainstream movies and TV are notorious for their violent imagery, and the claim that sexuality is the central location for violence against women ignores these genres entirely.

As a feminists (yes, I consider myself a feminist, and yes I am aware that I say this as a male living in a sexist society) we might ask why sexuality and pornography need to be included at all. If what we are interested in is in eliminating the subordination of women, why does it have to be sexually explicit material that we target? Servility, injury, enjoying pain -- why do they get banned only if they involve sex?

The honest political answer is that no one is about to ban violent images in this country -- they are too mainstream. Only explicitly sexual images are sufficiently offensive to large diverse groups, and targeting seemingly violent sexual images would be the only way for feminists to get widespread public support. But the consequence of the persecution of sexual images is that sexuality itself becomes the target. The unintended consequence is a major setback for those within the feminist movement whose goal is to de-repress or liberate women’s sexuality.

Dworkin’s and Mackinnon’s claim that sexuality is the prime and fundamental location for male power and female oppression is unproven. There are stronger associations, as other feminists have uncovered, with female oppression situated mostly around family structure and kinship systems, government and the rule of law, the division of labor, private property, and organized religion. The assertion that pornography is the cause rather than the symptom is a dangerous intellectual dishonesty that takes away attention from other possibly more important causes.

It is at best simple-minded to assume that one can know the meaning conveyed by an image merely from looking at it. How can we say that such images are degrading or humiliating? There can be (and are) many woman-made and pro-woman images like this. Do all such images serve to boost men’s self image by subjugating women? It seems to me to be dangerously culturally biased to ascribe universal meanings of empowerment or subjugation from images. The relationship between personal, subjective fantasy and imagery is subtle and idiosyncratic. In addition, one has to take into consideration the relationship between photographer, the person photographed, and the voyeur. As we know from our own lives, from art, and from psychology, there relationships are fluid and based on personal experiences and social contexts. What each of us makes of those images is hardly generalizable.

Finally, women who are photographed or filmed in the making of pornography do not report that their work is ultimately or inevitably harmful. Sex workers and their advocates have repeatedly called for the decriminalization of sex work in order so that working conditions and safety can be increased. They categorically reject any approach that stigmatizes them further.

And herein lies the irony: that the work of some prominent radical feminists has resulted in anti-sex campaigns that resemble Salem witch hunts and that have conservatives, with their tendency toward sexual repression and authoritarian (read patriarchal) salivating at the mouth. What I have seen is that anti-sex and anti-pornography campaigns are in actuality campaigns targeting sexual freedom and empowerment cannot exist without freedom.

My name is Eddie and I’m in recovery from civilization…

Friday, October 9, 2009

The TGIF Sex Blog [Pornography and Erotica]

¡Hola! Everybody...
I just heard our president was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. Here’s his response:

“I do not feel that I deserve to be in the company of so many of the transformative figures who have been honored by this prize... That is why I will accept this award as a call to action, a call for all nations to confront the common challenges of the 21st century.”

I see the online responses, the gnashing of teeth, and the tearing of clothes, and the neocons going into their feces-flinging act, and I have to shake my head in wonder. Let me put it this way: we went from a president who suffered the indignity of having shoes thrown at him (an expression of extreme disrespect) to a president being awarded a prestigious, internationally recognized award. Deal with it... I will be gone all day.

Today is Friday and it’s all about S-E-X!

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-=[ Erotica & Pornography ]=-


See today’s blog art? Pornography or art? Why? (It’s a rhetorical question! LOL).

The boundary between pornography and “artistic” erotica varies from individual to individual, and is conditioned by religious and socially defined moral beliefs, upbringing, and personal experience as to what is art and culture. It is for this reason that a society’s perception and definition of pornography is a good measure of the spirit of the times.

The publication in 1948 and 1953 of Alfred Kinsey’s massive sociological study on human sexual behavior, for example, resulted in an openness about sex, leading tot the “sexual revolution” of the 1960s and early 70s. During this time, Betty Friedan published The Feminine Mystique, generally seen as the beginning of the women’s liberation movement. In 1965, the US Supreme Court legalized the sale of contraceptives and in 1969 Denmark became the first Western country to drop all laws against the publication or sale of pornography.

At the time, many forward-thinking individuals saw pornography as a vehicle of free speech and a force against authority. The social critic Susan Sontag, writing in 1967, compared the pornographic and religious imaginations as two all-inclusive ways of describing the world (imagine someone proposing that idea today!). For Sontag, the pornographic universe is a “total universe. It has the power to ingest and metamorphose and translate all concerns that are fed into it,” and turn them into a reasoned form of dialogue around the need for erotic exchange -- just as religion turns them all into the hunger for God.

This is why pornographers such as the Marquis de Sade, Georges Bataille, and Pauline Réage (author of the Story of O) create a world in which there are no sexual taboos. They make no distinctions between the sexes, or between humans and animals or humans and objects. They are essentially multiplying the possibilities of exchange Bataille was especially clear about eroticism. For him, eroticism, like poetry, violence, and religious sacrifice, leads to the “blending and fusion of separate objects. It leads us to eternity; it leads us to death, and through death continuity.”

Whew! LOL

Of course, not all pornography has such a profound effect: oftentimes it is a vehicle for fantasy and escape. Still, some of the most extreme forms of modern Western pornography are, in Sontag’s analysis, among the vocabulary that answer the human need for personal transcendence since religion has, for the most part, failed in that role.

Love,

Eddie

Friday, April 24, 2009

The Friday Sex Blog (Deep Throat)

¡Hola! Everybody...
Today’s sex blog features a guest writer, the [in]famous Al Goldstein, who has fallen on hard times. If you can, check out his story (click here), it’s totally fascinating...

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-=[ Review of Deep Throat ]=-

Al Goldstein/ from Screw, March, 1972

[Note: As I wrote last week, Pornography is a complicated phenomenon. There is the reality that pornography in the US cannot be separated from the political and legal battles for free speech and the First Amendment, and at the same time, it also and perhaps has always been a profitable businesss. Say what you want, Goldstein bucked the system and actually won a couple of battles for free speech. He also thumbed his nose at the synthetic air-brushed feminine representations of Penthouse and Playboy, bringing sex over to it’s grittier and (some might say) more realistic side Deep Throat was the first hard-core porn movie to be shown in mainstream movie theaters and to be seen by large numbers of women. It was enthusiastically reviewed by Screw magazine-at the time widely distributed on street corners in many large American cities-which gave Deep Throat its highest rating: three erect penises.]

Deep Throat is everything you could possibly imagine it to be. Tis a tale with a happy ending of a girl who, after discovering that she is a sexual freak with a clitoris in her throat instead of between her legs, sucks her way to happiness and bliss. The technical and artistic work of the film is excellent. The photography is sharp and clear, and the color is beautiful. The soundtrack is perfect, the acting well done and the fucking and sucking supreme. The storyline traces the life of a fair young damsel who can’t have an orgasm from routine balling and blowing. She tries a gangbang scene with enough hard pricks around to get 12 normal women off. When the promiscuous ploy fails, she consults a psychiatrist who makes the discovery that her clit has somehow managed to lodge itself in the deep dark recesses of her throat. He recommends that she try some sword-swallowing and gets her started on his own ample weapon. Such a display of cock consumption has never before been recorded on the porno movie screen. The heroine engulfs stiff dicks right down to the balls. They simply disappear into her mouth and seemingly penetrate into the depths of her bowels. The girl becomes a physio-therapist for the shrink's sexually maladjusted patients and fucks them and sucks them while gratifying her own special orgasmic needs. She falls in love with a patient and he with her... and the movie ends with a fantastic blowjob to spurt-spurt and a smile on her face that lets the audience know just how much she digs eating cock. The film features a couple of ass fucking sequences and three come shots, two in that wonderful mouth. There is also a scene where the heroine gets a glass test tube stuffed up her snatch. It gets filled with Coca-Cola and drunk through a siphon-straw to the tune of the Coke jingle revised to say -- I’d like to teach you all to screw in perfect harmony.”

Playing at the Mature World, 49th St. off 7th Ave. (CI 7-5747). Admission $5.

Friday, January 2, 2009

The Friday Sex Blog [Erotica vs. Pornography]

¡Hola! Everybody...
I had a pleasant day yesterday spent with the woman I identified as “the Lush.” No, she’s not a lush, and she was quite embarrassed, but I assured she had nothing to be embarrassed about. Getting drunk on New Year’s Eve? Yeah! Wow! She’s a strange one!

Well, what she was really embarrassed about was her sexual advances toward me, and I teased her mercilessly about it. LOL! We have mutual friends and apparently, the New Year’s party host had assured her I would be there, so she’s had designs on me. Women! Humph!

Yes, she remembered everything and was cognizant of the fact that we could’ve had sex if I had pushed the envelope, but she was thankful I didn’t because, like me, she wants to be alert when it happens...

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-=[ Erotica vs. Pornography ]=-

“The difference between pornography and erotica is packaging.”

-- John Preston


Since this is the first sex blog of the year, I should start off with the raison de etre for its existence. I realize there are new readers who may not know me and I know there are countless lurkers I have no clue about -- there are people who read me that I don’t know. Therefore, a little explanation regarding my reasons for writing about sex should be in order. However, I don’t such a blog ready this day, so you’ll just have to guess my intentions and motivation and pick up clues here and there. Suffice it to say that I believe Americans are some of the most sexually naïve and repressed people on the planet. This blog (posted only on Fridays) is an attempt, of sorts, to set the record straight.

Today’s post might get me deleted from The ‘Ply/ y360...

Language is probably the only human instinct and as such is one of our most powerful tools. How we use language to describe sex is both telling a self-fulfilling prophesy. Take today’s photo by the well-known photographer Helmut Newton. His work is often featured in mainstream publications (he was, after all, a great fashion photographer), and some would call this “erotica” as opposed to “pornography.”

Bullshit!

The whole question regarding the difference between erotica and pornography is a bullshit debate. For me, it’s a non-question. In actuality, it’s an anxious plea for approval rather than real dive into dialog.

This debate is a consequence of the repression of sexual speech. If we thought of sex as a matter of taste and individuality, as we do with the foods we eat, we wouldn’t ask stupid questions like, “Is it erotic food or is it pornographic food?” “Is it the kind of food for men or the kind of food for women?” “Should it be eaten in public or hidden away?” No, we would most likely say, “Eat! This is what keeps you alive.” (And please! for the muthafuckas who can’t read, this isn’t a discussion on the legal definition of obscenity!)

This is a tiring and tired argument. My intention is to squelch any further discussion on this sorry excuse of an argument because attempting to answer it with any authority is undo any progress we have made regarding sexual expression. The argument itself is reactionary, and it needs to be stripped naked -- its pious garments ripped off.

Now, I want to you to look at the following. I consider it art -- and I could care less whether it’s called erotica or pornography. Many of you will call it child pornography and posting it will probably get me kicked off The ‘Ply/ y360:

Fanny, Montlivet, France, 1996

This is tangential to my discussion, but I think it’s necessary. Sturges has been attacked as a child pornographer, his studio raided and his equipment confiscated (the case was later thrown out of court). His work is core to my post today, however, because it hits at the very essence of how we arbitrarily exclude what’s sexual and what isn’t sexual, what’s accepted and what’s not. And believe me, this whole question is really about the acceptance (or rejection) of sexuality.

Some critics have condemned his work as thinly disguised underage pornography hiding behind the veil of fine art. Sturges and his defenders point to the “innocence” of his pictures of nude adolescents. More logically, Sturges criticizes the random division of people and their bodies into sexualized adults (over 18) and supposedly asexual children (under 18). The question really is: Should tasteful, non-exploitative erotic photography of adolescents be allowed? Is such a thing even possible? The photography of Jock Sturges presents a powerful case for the affirmative.

I would add that subjecting children to fear and teaching to be ashamed of their sexuality (erotophobia) is the cruelest abuse.

Here’s what people really want to hear when they attempt to make the distinction between erotica and porn: “Yes, based on conventions, society has decided that my fantasies and my sexual identity are valid, beautiful, and a turn-on to boot... but that person over there, sitting in the corner, their sexual expression is totally evil.”

Then, depending on whether you prefer the insinuation of erotica or the label of porn, you pin the preferred label on yourself and the creepy, icky label on the other person. Mission accomplished!

What’s truly creepy is creating such a dishonest discrimination to begin with. The truth of the matter is that your sexual speech is no better, more attractive, healthier, or morally superior than anyone else’s. The most intelligent thing to say to yourself when you encounter a style of sexuality unknown to you -- which can often be offensive, frightening, or unimaginable -- is to remind yourself of a variation on a Golden Rule: “Let them who are without desire cast the first stone.”


There are readers who are deeply appalled by the idea of sexual sadomasochism, which is often identified as pornographic. This form of sexual aversion is often accompanied by the rationalization that the only explanation for it would be an abusive and unloving childhood. The simple idea that it could be a matter of erotic taste seems unbelievable and even callous to them.

I would like to remind people that this kind of judgment -- the pathologizing of sexual behavior -- has been used with other forms of sexual preferences over the years, most notoriously with homosexuality. The kindest thing that was ever said about being queer, before the 1970s, was that homosexuals had endured tragic abuse and neglect in their families and that it twisted them for life. It was impossible to believe that such sexual desire could be either healthy or genuine.

But the real danger about such debates is that they are often settled by ignorance on what alarmists think people on the other side are doing. People who cringe at the idea of pornography have an inflamed concept and dangerous idea of it than the actual article can ever live up to. Generally, pornography is associated with the masculine and is supposed to be cruder -- something you buy at some sleazy place. Erotica is so respectful, you’ll find it in mainstream magazines (indeed, some of the best pornographic artists are fashion photographers). Think of Sister Wendy, who hosted a popular show where she critiqued the Great Masters on public television, lavishing praise on Renaissance portraits that display pubic hair.

I guess the point of all this is that the only thing being degraded is the notion that erotic expression deserves a place in public life -- a place entirely apart from banal commercialism and the dumbing down to the lowest common denominator. The prudes seem to have no problem with using sex to sell cars, or the violent explosion of imagery on Saturday morning cartoons, but squawk to high heaven if they see a Jock Sturges or David Hamilton.

We’re fearful of our own faces in erotic bliss, in the throes of desire. Perhaps it’s time we finally grew up and embrace our sexuality while throwing away the shame that binds us.

In Lust,

Eddie

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